There is a circle of Hell where the tormented plan weddings for all eternity.
Sure, I’m exaggerating, but planning a wedding makes most folks want to cut out their own heart with a rubber ducky—myself included.
Bridal Show: Beyond Thunderdome
There was a bridal show downtown last weekend, and Stephanie wanted to go. Being a good sport, I tagged along.
“You sure you are ready for this?” Stephanie asked.
“I’m a veteran of many comicons and fandom conventions,” I said. “Nothing scares me anymore. I can handle a mere bridal show.”
After three seconds inside the bridal show, I ate those words.
The fast-talking salespeople got me on edge right away, and the congested aisles did not help. It was like trying to move through an army of terracotta soldiers in a tar pit.
In fairness to the bridal show vendors: I get it. It is their job, and in some cases, the person’s own business. I don’t fault them for wanting to make a buck. I’ve been in their shoes, selling copies of my book at conventions and shows.
But, Batman-on-a-crutch, some of them could at least take No for an answer.
“Need to rent a tuxedo?” a young man asked.
“We’re not having tuxedos,” I said without so much as a look back.
He fired a verbal tractor beam. “What? No tuxedos? Why?”
“I don’t want a tux,” I said.
“Everyone wants a tux,” he answered. “Don’t you want to look good?”
Stephanie, thankfully, dragged me away.
Bridal Show Rules of Survival
The rest of the afternoon, I stuck to a few simple rules:
- Let Stephanie lead the way.
- Keep my head down.
- Don’t make eye contact with vendors.
- Smile and nod, but keep moving. Stopping, even for a second, shows a sign of interest.
This helped. Mostly.
Bridal Show Curios
One bridal show vendor offered live doves for a wedding. They had a pair of doves in a cage, sporting what looked like feather perms.
And two words: Chair covers. What a racket. Not only can you rent fancy covers for chairs, but you can also get a fancy bow tied around the cover. I imagine, for a fee, you could also have the chairs put on a pedestal and hire someone to fan your guests with palm leaves.
If I could get away with it, everyone at my wedding would sit on three-legged milking stools if it meant I could save a few bucks.
Another vendor had attendees stand in a glass case and grab as many coupons as possible.
“Want to give it a try?” Stephanie asked.
I watched a man snatch at whirling pieces of paper, and a vision filled my head: my hands covered with the tell-tale red slashes of paper cuts. My daydream didn’t stop there: the papers continued their spiral assault, and sliced my face like a knife through butter.
“Well?” Stephanie asked.
We picked up a catalog for a fancy resort vacation, and after flipping through the pages, I realized I had this marriage thing all wrong. Apparently, I need to wait about 20 years, and marry a woman half my age. That is what the scores of photos of gray-haired gents with twenty-something wives told me.
Then, in the midst of this commercial wasteland, I spotted an oasis.
I noticed a woman standing next to a row of bottles. “Is that…” I began, “…A bar?”
Stephanie was in line to sign up for a wedding dress consolation. “Go check it out.” The sluggish crowd parted before me like the Red Sea as I bolted for the cash bar.
“How much for the bottle of whiskey?” I only slightly joked.
“Sorry, can’t do that,” the bartender answered with a smile.
With beers in hand, I returned to Stephanie, who had barely moved in line. We each took a sip. “I needed this,” I said post-sip. “I was feeling stabby.”
The only downside was, the beers made us stand out like Sparty at a University of Michigan homecoming parade.
“People are staring,” Stephanie whispered.
“Let them stare,” I said with Gollum tonality. “They’re just jealous. They wants it.”
When I broke into a wild eyed song about fishies, Stephanie decided it was time to leave.
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